tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post6498543207136350102..comments2024-03-15T20:52:26.967-07:00Comments on Steve Sailer: iSteve: Graduation seasonUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-50727236093314892382007-06-29T11:35:00.000-07:002007-06-29T11:35:00.000-07:00Steve sez:"Teachers and nurses sound like good bet...Steve sez:<BR/><BR/>"Teachers and nurses sound like good bets as wives. Also, they tend to have stable, often union jobs with good benefits. If the husband is going to try some high risk-high reward job where he could get laid off and lose his health insurance, the wife can balance this out with a steady job like teacher or nurse."<BR/><BR/>But, to quote the old song, where can I find a woman like that?<BR/><BR/>Most 20-something females I see are trying to be executives in the daytime and "Sex and the City" whores at night. They're liberated, and if they wanted to take care of a child, they would've had one, not married one...etc., etc., etc.<BR/><BR/>This is why Asian women look increasingly good. Many are female.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-8433675917703986232007-06-28T01:16:00.000-07:002007-06-28T01:16:00.000-07:00Teachers and nurses sound like good bets as wives....Teachers and nurses sound like good bets as wives. Also, they tend to have stable, often union jobs with good benefits. If the husband is going to try some high risk-high reward job where he could get laid off and lose his health insurance, the wife can balance this out with a steady job like teacher or nurse.Steve Sailerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11920109042402850214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-35594911148962013962007-06-27T23:42:00.000-07:002007-06-27T23:42:00.000-07:00The women teachers generally dated men who had sig...<I>The women teachers generally dated men who had significantly greater status than they did, i.e. reporters, radio producers, various movie people.</I><BR/><BR/>I think it was the book "The Millionaire Next Door" that said that the most common profession of a millionaire spouse is teacher. That may be only because it's the most common profession women belong to. The data in that book seemd somewhat...half-assed, to say the least.<BR/><BR/>But it takes both good social skills smarts to be a good teacher, so women who are good teachers make good catches.<BR/><BR/>Tecahing - except for mostly coaching - doesn't generally allow for displaying the kind of attributes, like competitiveness, that women (whether they'll admit it or not) admire in men. And it certainly doesn't allow for the kind of income that women admire, either.<BR/><BR/><I>Most teachers don't have bad commutes, they don't have to worry about getting their jobs outsourced to India, and they only work half the year.</I><BR/><BR/>No, but they do have to worry about insourcing - bringing the third worlders here. My state just agreed to hire 50 teachers from Mexico...to teach kids who should be sitting in Mexico schools to begin with. And of course it helps to keep the wages down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-87107674232164826812007-06-27T21:39:00.000-07:002007-06-27T21:39:00.000-07:00Dave -- those are good points, but the Tao of Stev...Dave -- those are good points, but the Tao of Steve is a fantasy, not reality.<BR/><BR/>Male teachers have very little status, one thing that was interesting to see was how few were married or even fairly successful dating, compared to the women.<BR/><BR/>The women teachers generally dated men who had significantly greater status than they did, i.e. reporters, radio producers, various movie people. When of course they weren't dating their ex-students. There was no dating among teachers, even though there were a number of male teachers among the gaggle of single women. However, Coaches were the exception to that rule, younger single male Coaches seemed to do well dating-wise. Probably due to status.<BR/><BR/>Tao of Steve? Great film but total fantasy.<BR/><BR/>Of course most teachers taught Summer School or worked part time. So income might have been a bit higher.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-71642108767809305952007-06-27T19:39:00.000-07:002007-06-27T19:39:00.000-07:00Hyperbole aside, there are undercurrents in our s...Hyperbole aside, there are undercurrents in our society that make it dangerous for a man to work with children. <BR/><BR/>I have spoken with men who teach at the high school level. The threat of being accused of sexual abuse is very real these days and not from girls as much as delinquent teenage boys seeking to get revenge. These allegations get investigated no matter what the source.<BR/><BR/>It's a legacy from the 90s hysteria about ritualized sexual abuse of preschoolers and "recovered" memories of father-daughter incest. Of course, the current trend for 20 something female teachers to seduce male students of all ages may ease some of the pressure on male teachers to be circumspect in everything they do and say.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15416768654321401826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-38145555485538498032007-06-27T14:04:00.000-07:002007-06-27T14:04:00.000-07:00This idea that men are either somehow queer or los...This idea that men are either somehow queer or losers to be teachers ignores a few perks of teaching.<BR/><BR/>1) Tenure. Not too many jobs in the private sector offer the perk of it being virtually impossible to get fired.<BR/><BR/>2) Lifestyle. Most teachers don't have bad commutes, they don't have to worry about getting their jobs outsourced to India, and they only work half the year.<BR/><BR/>3) Money. Better than you might think, in high-end suburban districts. Many teachers in counties such as Bergen in NJ and Westchester in NY top out over $100k (not bad for working half a year). Also, most teachers get a pretty generous defined benefit pension plan (in addition to their defined contribution, 403(b)s). Also, if you work in a fancy town and can't afford to live there, you will most likely still get one of the chief benefits of living in that town: being able to send your own kids to the school where you work. <BR/><BR/>Altogether, not a bad gig. If you aren't in a job where you can make real money (i.e., $250k+ for a married couple in a high cost metro area) and sock it away, you are better off as a suburban teacher or cop than in most private sector jobs with similar or even slightly higher pay. <BR/><BR/>Also, for those who haven't seen it, the movie <A HREF="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0234853/" REL="nofollow">The Tao of Steve</A> offers an interesting counterpoint to the status versus dating discussion here, as it's about an overweight kindergarten teacher who has no trouble with the ladies. A conventional turn toward the end doesn't mar an interesting concept in the beginning.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-73574618279673513232007-06-27T08:14:00.000-07:002007-06-27T08:14:00.000-07:00Get your kids into a scout troop or something.I ha...Get your kids into a scout troop or something.<BR/><BR/>I had a couple of great male teachers in high school. One was an MIT grad who taught calculus at our middle-market high school because he loved doing it. He was amazing. Another was an English teacher who loved English and musicals. He was married with children and didn't seem effeminate at all, so, unsurprisingly, we didn't associate literature and musicals with being gay. Our drama department was run by a gaggle of aromatherapy-type females and we did associate it with being gay.<BR/><BR/>I bet that there are differences in male-female learning styles and that male teachers are necessary for this reason. But looking back, I think the big difference was just that these teachers were men. I think boys are probably hardwired to want to be "men", not just adults, so when they see men they can respect who are teaching them it makes the subjects more palatable.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-23720800691695267962007-06-27T07:32:00.000-07:002007-06-27T07:32:00.000-07:00Best not to pay attention to the trolls.Retired En...Best not to pay attention to the trolls.<BR/><BR/><I>Retired Engineers, college grads from the hard sciences who dont want to join the labour market yet, etc etc could become teachers for a term, or a year.</I> - mensarefugee<BR/><BR/>The problem with that idea is that "even" in teaching (not to disparage the profession), experience matters. Teachers get better with time. However, allowing people to take "temporary" jobs as teachers may serve as an incentive to draw good teachers - and only good teachers - into the profession. Since a person will no longer have to devote years of schooling to becoming a teacher, those who don't enjoy it or don't do well won't be stuck in a job they're no good at. Principals also won't feel too bad about canning a person who clearly has other options available to him.<BR/><BR/>If I stink at teaching I can always go back to being an engineer. Someone with a degree in Secondary Ed doesn't have that choice. If states really want to increase the pool of teaching talent, maybe they should provide more scholarships to non-Ed majors who get teaching certificates. Though something tells me that the NEA would find some bizarre reason to oppose that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-70853599497088955412007-06-27T01:27:00.000-07:002007-06-27T01:27:00.000-07:00Anonymous 6/26/2007 8:08 PM, 6/26/2007 8:28 PM,Mar...Anonymous 6/26/2007 8:08 PM, 6/26/2007 8:28 PM,<BR/><BR/>Mark did not write the comments that you found so objectionable. Peter and another Anonymous did. Mark was in fact disagreeing with them.<BR/><BR/>Boy, Anonymous, I sure hope you're not a teacher. Your comments are not only careless and wrong, but also disturbing and vulgar. <BR/><BR/>(Read Peter's comment again, too. He's sympathizing with male teachers, not disparaging them.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-80722894628403052942007-06-27T00:27:00.000-07:002007-06-27T00:27:00.000-07:00"but I have to say the girls are far outwitting th..."but I have to say the girls are far outwitting the boys as far as scholerships are concerned... it's really scary... I mean, I'm talking about 2 or 3 boys and 19 girls...<BR/><BR/>what the hell are the boys doing....<BR/><BR/>not learning that's for sure...<BR/><BR/>maybe you men should stop worrying about women teaching and start trying to helping your sons for god's sake..."<BR/><BR/>Now, perhaps we believe that boys beginning to fail and schools becoming an all-female-teacher environment are somehow related?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-51755331637323276312007-06-26T22:28:00.000-07:002007-06-26T22:28:00.000-07:00Repealing teacher certification would solve a larg...Repealing teacher certification would solve a large chunk of this problem.<BR/><BR/>Retired Engineers, college grads from the hard sciences who dont want to join the labour market yet, etc etc could become teachers for a term, or a year. If one thinks (and Im not sure I agree) that a male who takes up teaching as a career is queer or effiminate - it certainly wont apply anyway to engineers 'passing through'.<BR/><BR/>And this would put pressure on the incumbent teachers to shape up.<BR/><BR/>So, I guess it wont happen short of war and revolution.MensaRefugeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00140097855923319224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-36681281776368123632007-06-26T21:59:00.000-07:002007-06-26T21:59:00.000-07:00Person who did the last four anonymouses: Mark sai...Person who did the last four anonymouses: Mark said he was considering teaching when he becomes older himself. It was one of your fellow anonymouses, whom Mark quoted but disagreed with, that said hanging out with litle kids was unmasculine. Calm down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-11239176782114511072007-06-26T20:40:00.000-07:002007-06-26T20:40:00.000-07:00I'm a bit ambivalent about this letter. I'm a dad ...I'm a bit ambivalent about this letter. I'm a dad and I don't want to be overly rough on boys, but I recognize that they need discipline and structure more than girls do. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes I think Steve is reading my mind, because he constantly posts on matters that I am thinking about myself. To me, boys need both a tender and a firm hand. <BR/><BR/>Girls are emotionally tougher, but boys are obviously more physically oriented. Someone said that it is "off" (read queer) for men to be concerned about boys, but I think this is one of our biggest problems now -- we hand our boys over to queers. This is a really bad idea. <BR/><BR/>I'd really like to work with boys someday, but I'm not sure I'll ever have the time or be able to afford such a job. Also, there's no way I'd ever get hired as a teacher -- I live in Seattle and the schools do not value guys like me. It is true, the types who work in our public schools probably would try to get me arrested. <BR/><BR/>So I guess I'll only be spending time with my own kids, although according to one poster there is something weird about men liking children. Honestly, I resent that. I love my kids, and so do the other men in my family. <BR/><BR/>My grandpa, a B-17 belly-gunner in WWII, college wrestler and retired engineer, loves nothing more than to spend time with his little great-grandkids. Is he some kind of a homo for that? Say that to his face and even at 85 he'd probably have some choice words for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-77122379859565509672007-06-26T20:28:00.000-07:002007-06-26T20:28:00.000-07:00I am so incredibly mad at this man Mark, it's not ...I am so incredibly mad at this man Mark, it's not funny...<BR/><BR/>He not only reeks of ignorance, he reeks of character...<BR/><BR/>to even insinuate that a man is a child molester for being a teacher is so incredibly insane and childish...<BR/><BR/>I'm gasping for air, from my anger....<BR/><BR/>I may be a tad liberal, but I'll tell you now... I've lost total respect for this blog....<BR/><BR/>how dare you post such insanity...<BR/><BR/>I can't tell you how inspired I've been over the years by male teachers...<BR/><BR/>what, they're not real men because they teach...<BR/><BR/>sick!!!!<BR/><BR/><BR/>really sick!!!!<BR/><BR/><BR/>mark, go drown yourself...please......<BR/><BR/>I feel sorry for your wife and kids... I do...<BR/><BR/>men like you, make me want to stay single for life...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-41975478396714578892007-06-26T20:08:00.000-07:002007-06-26T20:08:00.000-07:00honestly MARK...your a wacko... and I wonder about...honestly MARK...<BR/><BR/>your a wacko... and I wonder about you... do you have inclinations toward perversion or something...<BR/><BR/>I mean really...<BR/><BR/>god, you have kids, yet you think a male teacher is a 'fag' or a potential jail bate abuser...<BR/><BR/>you are sick...<BR/><BR/>forget about it... and you're an engineer...<BR/><BR/>aren't they intelligent?????<BR/><BR/>you're a sick conservative... you are... god help you...<BR/><BR/>you sick fuck!!!!<BR/><BR/>get a clue...<BR/><BR/>just b/c a male is a teacher, it isn't setting him up for rape charges...<BR/><BR/>you have one sick mind bud...<BR/><BR/>go sink your sick head in a hole...<BR/><BR/>arsehole...<BR/><BR/>kAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-90624494058995126452007-06-26T19:58:00.000-07:002007-06-26T19:58:00.000-07:00you're all a bunch of nuts here... who the hell ca...you're all a bunch of nuts here... who the hell cares what the gender is....<BR/><BR/>laugh...<BR/><BR/>as long as the kids are learning...<BR/><BR/>I just sat thru 2 graduations... painful!!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>but I have to say the girls are far outwitting the boys as far as scholerships are concerned... it's really scary... I mean, I'm talking about 2 or 3 boys and 19 girls...<BR/><BR/>what the hell are the boys doing....<BR/><BR/>not learning that's for sure...<BR/><BR/>maybe you men should stop worrying about women teaching and start trying to helping your sons for god's sake...<BR/><BR/>it's embarrassing!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-7682803243973053082007-06-26T19:48:00.000-07:002007-06-26T19:48:00.000-07:00If such a one HAD shown up, someone would have cal...<I>If such a one HAD shown up, someone would have called the police.</I><BR/><BR/>Yesterday on the NPR program 'Fresh Air', two male, past middle age, milquetoast-sounding teachers from the Philadelphia area who'd been assaulted (and badly injured) in school <A HREF="http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=11416891" REL="nofollow">were interviewed</A>. Somewhat surprisingly, the subject of race did come up, and the obvious was openly admitted: the teachers were white and the kids who beat them up were black (although I, and probably most listeners, had assumed that from the beginning). When asked directly if they thought race was a factor, one insisted (dutifully I guess) that it definitely wasn't. One of the teachers said that because of the age difference, it was as if the kids had hit their grandfathers, at which point I thought 'With one difference: their grandfathers aren't white'.<BR/><BR/>ehAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-54527683502765475672007-06-26T18:49:00.000-07:002007-06-26T18:49:00.000-07:00"Beginning in 1946, public education was infused w..."Beginning in 1946, public education was infused with a wave of WWII vets as teachers and administrators."<BR/><BR/>There was another wave during the Vietnam war era, as teachers had an exemption from the draft. Men who started teaching in that era are now retiring in droves.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-11426045796778831212007-06-26T18:47:00.000-07:002007-06-26T18:47:00.000-07:00One is reminded of the Britishism, "Queer as a sco...One is reminded of the Britishism, "Queer as a scoutmaster".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-10189318257374793582007-06-26T18:29:00.000-07:002007-06-26T18:29:00.000-07:00uh, I hate to intrude on this little sausage party...uh, I hate to intrude on this little sausage party (excuse my French, I've been hanging out with guys too much), but men are "hormonal" also. In case you have missed several thousand years of earth history, testosterone (or whatever other hormones are high in men) has played a part of which most men appear to be quite proud.<BR/> What you are trying to say is, we need more male hormones in teaching.<BR/> Actually, I agree. There are some men who are good with little kids just as there are some women good with, oh, plumbing. I do think male teachers are needed for older boys. But by and large, teaching small children has been something men teachers have scorned. In ancient Rome, one unfortunate was held to have fallen so low he was "teaching children." "Dame schools" were common in colonial times, and I read that in old Persia(!), old ladies who knew how to read would host little schools for neighborhood kids. <BR/> Anyway, i'm not so sure it was always so great when teachers were mostly male. As outlined in biographies, the early school days of Franz Kafka, as one example, Winston Churchill another, were truly nightmarish. Only the strong survived and I suspect many of them became Stormtroopers. There needs to be a balance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-76135883219199188632007-06-26T14:28:00.000-07:002007-06-26T14:28:00.000-07:00It's not normal for a man to enjoy spending time w...It's not normal for a man to enjoy spending time with little kids. It doesn't necessarily make you a homosexual, but it is un-masculine.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-6620170253225323332007-06-26T14:02:00.000-07:002007-06-26T14:02:00.000-07:00I love the fact that as I read this page, on the s...I love the fact that as I read this page, on the side there is an ad for McCain. Brilliant use of campaign funds, guys.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-49849577452389664942007-06-26T13:16:00.000-07:002007-06-26T13:16:00.000-07:00I have a good friend who is an elementary school t...I have a good friend who is an elementary school teacher and there is nothing "off" about him, nor is he homosexual. He just loves kids and enjoys working with them (and they love having a kindly male teacher, who is also athletic and runs around the playground with them).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-68561258125279992842007-06-26T11:40:00.000-07:002007-06-26T11:40:00.000-07:00>>Honestly, I think there is a good chance that th...>>Honestly, I think there is a good chance that there is something at least a tad "off" with any male who would *want* to spend 40 hours a week with a bunch of little kids that he is not related to.<BR/><BR/>I had some great male elementary teachers, so I disagree with this. Nothing creepy about any of them. (Well, there were a coupole of weirdos in junior high, but that's a different story).Michael Carr - Veritas Literaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04017030835398885411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9430835.post-69325234663071455362007-06-26T11:30:00.000-07:002007-06-26T11:30:00.000-07:00...teaching seems like a very risky job for a man....<I>...teaching seems like a very risky job for a man. Too much danger of false accusations.</I><BR/><BR/><I>Honestly, I think there is a good chance that there is something at least a tad "off" with any male who would *want* to spend 40 hours a week with a bunch of little kids that he is not related to.</I><BR/><BR/>I've often thought I might go into teaching after my own kids are raised and I've spent a career in a real job making real money. I see nothing wrong with men as teachers. Teaching high school would allow me to use my engineering experience and would be a better fit for my personality; but dollar for dollar the best, most enjoyable years of school for me were 1st and 2nd grade. In another life, I think teaching kids that age would be a lot of fun.<BR/><BR/>Excessively hormonal women dominating our school system is one part of our modern problem. The other part is that real men (as opposed to the effeminite/weird kind) are seen as having no proper role instructing young children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com